Jewelry Maker's Guide to Gift-Giving: 10 Things Every Gifter Should Know

Does gift-giving leave you stressed? What should you give and to whom ? Is regifting acceptable ? How should you handle an unexpected present?

The answers to these commonly asked questions are based on recommendations from Peggy Post, author of Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition. They'll help you gift with confidence while avoiding sticky situations!

1. Make a List

When it comes to gift-giving, it's advisable to create a pre-planned list of recipients and determine a budget for each individual beforehand. 

Having a list helps you stay focused on your needs. For instance, if you spot a purse your mother would adore while shopping, you can purchase it and check it off your list. Keeping this list handy during every shopping trip can prevent the last-minute panic of an upcoming gift-oriented holiday. 

Most importantly, your list will keep you from forgetting gifts and overspending. Spending more than you should takes the fun out of gift-giving. Few things are more nerve-racking than overspending and the uneasiness that follows. 

2. Make It Special

This is especially important with handmade gifts. Did you splurge on precious metal findings and gemstones in a handmade necklace? Make a tag that includes a description of the piece, such as "handmade sterling silver and onyx necklace." Or if you've made a charm from Art Clay®, include on the tag "handmade fine silver charm." This presentation lets the receiver fully appreciate the workmanship and quality of the jewelry as well as the time and care you spent.

You can also include on a label what materials were used to make your gift and how to care for it. This can be especially helpful if the gift was made with cloth or fiber.

If you purchased a gift from a boutique or a local artist, include their business card. This gives the recipient more information about the gift, and it also helps the small business. Your recipient may want to follow up with the artist or boutique for future purchases. 

3. Personalization

People love seeing their names! Gifts adorned with a monogram or other personalized elements are particularly valued. These details might include birthstones, image transfers, letter charms, lockets with photographs, or any other touches that add a personal flair to the gift. 

4. A Lasting Gift

Flowers or a box of candy will be enjoyed for the short term, but jewelry will last a lifetime. Other  gifts keep on giving , such as quality jewelry-making tools. For someone who has everything, consider gifting  an experience , such as a jewelry-making class or a kit for a jewelry-making technique they haven't tried before.

5. Keep it Under Wraps

The element of surprise is half the fun of gift-giving, so keep your gift under wraps with the perfect packaging. You can also make your own packaging  for that personal touch. Embellish it with charms and beads and use earthy hemp cords to tie it all up.

Traditionally, host and hostess gifts are not wrapped. However, adding a special touch, like a tag with flat-back crystals or a beautiful ribbon, can enhance the gesture. 

6. Do Your Homework

Become a detective in your gift-giving mission! Request hints or a wish list from recipients or gather ideas throughout the year and jot them down on your gift list. Keep tabs on ages, likes and dislikes to ensure your gifts are fitting. Pay careful attention to sizing, especially if you're crafting something. For instance, you wouldn't want to present someone with a bracelet that's too small for their wrist. If the size is unknown, consider making the jewelry adjustable. Earrings are a failsafe option, ensuring a good fit--just be sure their ears are pierced and they aren't sensitive to certain materials. 

7. Gift Certificates

When uncertain about the perfect gift, a gift certificate proves to be an excellent choice. 

One of the best gifts for the jewelry maker in your life is a Fire Mountain Gems and Beads gift certificate. It's easy to order gift certificates online. You can have them mailed to you or emailed anywhere in the world so you can give them personally or have them sent directly to your recipients. 

8. A Note of Thanks

What if you are the recipient of a gift? Is a thank-you note required? Yes, of course! It's always best to send a handwritten note when you receive a gift , especially if you're unable to thank the giver  in person. While an email is better than sending nothing, opting for a handwritten note remains the most thoughtful approach. 

Keep cards and stamps on hand at all times, at home and at work . This way you'll always be ready to send a note of thanks.

9. The Unexpected Gift

What if you are the recipient of an unexpected gift? All that is required is a warm "Thank you!" and a follow-up thank-you note. Unexpected gifts do not have to be reciprocated. Saying that you will get them something in return is like trumping their gift.

There might be occasions when you unexpectedly need to give a gift. To avoid being caught without one, consider keeping a few versatile items on hand. It's easy to have copies of your favorite jewelry-making book or a simple bracelet ready. This way, you'll always be prepared for last-minute gift-giving situations.

10. Regift with Caution

Regifting is acceptable, but exercise caution. Ensure it's a brand-new gift in its original box or packaging. Never regift something the original giver took great care to select just for you or made by hand. 

When it comes to gift-giving, the key is to trust your judgment. Release the fear of imperfection. If you believe the recipient will appreciate it, chances are they will.